Whatever happens in our life, your life, my life, we ourselves, and only we ourselves are responsible for it. We should hold only and only ourselves accountable for our own lives and should blame no one else for the good or bad that is happening in it.
Not our parents, not our friends, not our teachers, not our special ones, not our situations, not our circumstances, no none of them are responsible for the failure that we faced today or the setback that we have in our life.
This is one of the most important things that we should understand, accept and do something about: INSTANT GRATIFICATION.
It is the instant pleasure that we run behind that we get after doing the action whether it is beneficial for us or not.
Here also the same law of compounding is working with you and for you.